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Women in Film - And it's Not About Shopping or Getting Married

At first I was going to post about the poetry reading I went to early last week that was sponsored by Writegirl but was hella stoked to see everything else going in the world of cinema.  Still, if you're in the LA area and interested in mentoring young girls, go to the above link.

If you're like me, you probably can only name one film starring Dyan Cannon and you just know her best as someone who sits near Jack Nicholson at Lakers home games.  Well, today she's behind a documentary that highlights the lives of Hollywood street kids.  Though this
article mostly focuses on one girl in particular, it's clear that Ms. Cannon is not doing this to be trendy.  If it's anything like Pras' (Fugees), who filmed himself being homeless for one week, it will be worth watching on a Saturday night.
 Not your typical 71 year old.
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Lori Petty, best known as "Tank Girl" from the early 90s is an accomplished artist, director and producer.  I didn't know that she was behind my favorite one-season-only-because-its-too-damn-eclectic FOX sitcom "Lush Life".  Recently, I saw her giving commentary on Paul Mooney's DVD and figured that somewhere she has her own story to tell - "The Poker House" is in limited release.

  What can I really say but awesome!


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Why Some L.A. Schools Suck

As a former LAUSD employee, I cannot say that everybody does not do their job as specified.  There are some people (even in the infamous payroll department) who do care about their jobs and how to keep their personal opinions to themselves-especially if it may be beneficial to others in need.  Yet, I can say there are many who are out to supress the needs of students, staff and hard-working faculty members for their own greed and/or selfish desires. Sadly, unlike a corporate job, it takes a minute or two in order to terminate them for good.

I did not know Karen Salazar personally but I've met this type of teacher before.  This type of pragmatism is what is especially needed since some administrators don't encourage a lot of independent thought.  Being this is feminist website first, I don't have to stress how sickening this is as a minority woman who has witnessed many teachers (and some male) weep over the lack of overall care given to our children.  I've witnessed some staff and faculty laugh or literally look the other way at a child being neglected while in their care. Don't believe me?  Google 'LAUSD' and 'molestation'.  Hope you've got a strong stomach.

In case you missed it, Salvadorean-born Salazar was fired for teaching her high school students about Malcolm X, Langston Hughes and other historical Black figures.  What has made this incredible are the many protests led mostly by her students. Here's the article.

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Hey, Gustavo, Where Are You? I Miss My Mexican!


I know this post does not have to do with being a woman or plus-size, angry or whatever. 
This is some 411 for those of us that live in a big city should not ignore.

As most of you know, I'm in Los Angeles County where the population is something like 47% Hispanic/Latino, 27% White, 11% Black (and some Haitians/Dominicans/Puerto Ricans out here are not claiming Black, which is what they look like upon first sight but I digress) and the rest of the Asians/Pacific Islanders/Indians make up the remaining 15%.  Like I said, these are rough figures.  This is not about who should stay or go because we all have our baggage as both individuals and a race.

When I was coming along, everybody was everybody. Blacks with money lived near poor Whites, it was not unusual to see a Mexican having dinner at a Chinese household and so on.  This did not last long as my experiences with different races has been both visible as lint (hint: we are people first, not a color) and sometimes a mind-blowing experience (because people watch too much damn television, especially the news). 

My real efforts to learn the Spanish language began with my first stint with the L.A. school system.  It was not to communicate with students or even their parents but my damn co-workers at the time.  Without going into details of the ignorant (written rules stated that English was the only language to be spoken in the workplace), it was always nice to meet someone who did not mind sharing in detail the struggles that come with illegal immigration or history outside of Cinco de Mayo.

Since 1987, I have been an avid reader of the L.A. Weekly which is like our version of Village Voice.  They reported news that the Times was too cute to touch (and notice they've had two massive layoffs in the past few years) and reported on other happenings in L.A., that would make natives like me forget about the traffic, smog, high cost of living,etc. and remind us that this was not such a bad place to live after all. 

In the 21st century, that seemed to change as every cover story that had a Brown or Black face, was someone in trouble. Either with the law or had extensive unemployment or some other sociopolitical wrong.  So around 2004, they began a column called Ask a Mexican!

Gustavo Arellano, author and journalist for the OC Weekly, would respond to questions starting with 'Dear Gabacho'.  It wasn't always nice but you got the facts as they were.   I began to think of it as a continuing ed Civics class and looked forward to it every Thursday until April 1, 2008 when Arellano announced that this column would be his last due to the negative feedback he was receiving.  Though I'd never seen him, I became very concerned and wanted for him to go on teaching.  This news did not make my morning so when I got home and turned on the TV to Pizza Hut's ongoing campaign that they were changing their name to Pasta Hut (ha,ha...yawn) I still wondered about what words could have cut through this man so deep that he wanted to throw in the towel.

The following Thursday, he let the public know that April Fool's was on his mind too and he wasn't going anywhere.  It was like your best friend saying they were just kidding about messing around with your man, thye just wanted to see your reaction.  Of course, within a month you would find it was true.  While Arellano is plugging his new book on a tour, that's no reason to mess with the heads of us non-shallow Angelenos. Come back,homes,come back!

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Come Back, Susan, Come Back - Essence Needs You!!!

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I know I'm late on this story but at the time, my "friend" at Bitter Vibes (sorry to see you go but KIT) had said all a person could say about the future of women mags, particulary those aimed at an urban audience.

Over the weekend, Susan L.Taylor was featured on BET's Real Life Divas which had been extended to 1 hour.  Of course, her story went through the usual outline which was humble beginnings, the rough patches of a career woman and very respected personalities like Bill Clinton (hmm), author/activist Kevin Powell and Terry McMillan (ladies, don't worry - like me she is a Libra who loves hard but comes back on a mission when dogged out by love) who put in their 1-2 words.  When I saw Jesse Jackson,Al Sharpton and some other so-called "leaders of the community", I was like 'OK, he has decent intentions-sometimes.'
 

Then this person was on my TV!


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I'm not saying he was responsible for the mag's demise but his 2007 cover story about the babymomma, that he's either with or not (during her pregnancy), his infidelity and how at the end of the day, she gets broken off (gets a nice child support check) - pretty much nailed Essence in the coffin. 

If you're not familiar, Essence was at one time, pretty much the Black version of Comsopolitan or Vogue (with lower budget sponsors) with informational articles being somewhat secondary to fashion and beauty.  Then somewhere in the late 80/90s there were more articles about women who turned their life around or opened the public's eyes about how Black women are likely to do the time for their boyfriend/husband's crime or overseas issues like genital mutilation and women in politics.  Celebrity interviews/articles were never the primary focus until late last year when it was decided that all covers would have a celebrity - male or female.

Not saying that's a bad thing but with the recession and community morale in the toilet, we as women need all the reinforcement possible to let us know that it will be alright.  Giving Karrine Stephans (Superhead) publicity for another tell-all featuring 'here today, gone tomorrow because they had no talent to begin with'  and other mysogynist male celebrities does not help the cause.

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That VH-1 Sex Show - Pt. 3


The entire series was not bad at all but episode three resonated the most because the concept of a man (or anyone else) even attempting to repress me sexually is insane.  It's kind of like visiting a museum where you check out artifacts (or women whose primary job was to please her husband first).

Though the common synopsis among most who saw it is, 'Back when things were simpler, there were fewer problems'.  Yeah, yeah,yeah...nobody wants AIDS/HIV, a sexually transmitted disease or to have any further complications in their life.

What I took from it was sex is like everything else - it has to be done in some moderation(but not before discretion).  If not, there will be a crash and burn whether it is repressed or expressed on the extreme.


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The 'Zine is Here, the 'zine is here!!!

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OH YEAH...I Did Not Forget About Women's History Month



I pondered as to whether I should just mention it, put out the 'zine a month early, plug Hillary Rodham Clinton or what.  I even thought about who I should pay tribute to that wasn't a celebrity or someone who put a twist on 'the end justifies the means' when it came to women's enpowerment.  So like everything else in recent, I went with my gut and did a collage of women in non-traditional positions. 

Notice I did NOT have us doing the following -

  • Domestic Work (Paid or Not)
  • Shopping
  • Being Happy, Glamorous or Posing

It's not that I have anything against us doing these things, it's just that men have their own cooking shows and nobody thinks twice but a woman who knows her way around Home Depot gets almost no attention.  Anyhoo, I included the waitress because I learned from last month's issue of BUST that you can make a career out of this (and good $) if you are smart, take care of your body and have thick skin. 

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A Plus-Size Male Cheerleading Squad...I Think I Like It!


I could never fully grasp the idea of a male cheerleader not because I went to a girls school but the men were usually gay or really effeminate (like the old Will Ferrell character on SNL).

With the Florida Marlins Manatees,  you got what I'd rather call a men's dance troupe struttin' their stuff and there ain't a damn girly thing about it
Not homophobic but it's just that in the age of metrosexuality (which actually goes back to the days of Duran Duran/Adam Ant when it was called New Romantic) its refreshing to see men be men without being thuggish, hard or just questionable.

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Ain't Love and Politics Just Sweet!

AAAAAAWWW, go on girl and stand by your ho man!


I wasn't around during the JFK days when the woman's dignity was kept intact.  When it comes to us women and marital infidelity, its like damn if you do leave and damn if you don't (have you noticed the latter comes from old timers?) 

I'm tired of 21st century politicians taking up media space with their confessions of infidelity, marital stress and/or being closeted. 

And if you reside in L.A., please do NOT re-elect this man!

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(oh yeah, guess who lost their job behind this mess?)

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I Don't Care What You Say...Queen La

 I'm so glad to take a short vacay I don't know what to do when but I have been reminded of the other inferior product that Queen La once plugged. 
That damn Curvation underwear!

Now I have a confession.  A long time ago, I was a shopping ho.  Not in a I-need-therapy or my own segment on reality TV sort of way but if something came in the right shade of pink, green, turquoise or purple - it was mine! 

Anyhoo, before I learned that Walmart exploited their Chinese workers way worse than any U.S woman employed by them who wants to move up the ladder - I bought some of their underwear. I'll spare you all the intense details but it doesn't last through many washings (more like 3 in warm water). 

If it is no secret that you do not shop Vicky's Secret for the obvious reasons, that is not a crime.  If you want to wear see-through, polka-dot or neon color whatevers in double-digit sizes - that is your damn business.  It's just that if you buy something, it should fit and it should do what it's supposed to.  Lopsided cups are not cute.  Loose wires are painful as hell and saggy fabric (after a couple of spins in the washer) should be outlawed. No woman needs a house bra like they need period panties but that's the only purpose I think Curvation serves.  So no, I'm not buying her new Jenny Craig commercial just like I didn't buy Carnie Wilson's argument that people need lipo.

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